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Grow and the Big Volcano

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Hi, little one. You built a tall block tower, and then it crashed down with a bang. A hot, red feeling rushes up from your toes to your ears. Your hands squeeze into tight little fists. 'Calm down!' Grow blurts, startled. 'Don't be angry!'

But the feeling doesn't listen. Instead of calming down, it grows even bigger, even hotter, even redder, like someone just added logs to the fire. 'Now it's even worse!' you say. Grow freezes, surprised.

'That didn't help,' Grow says quietly. 'Anger doesn't like being told to stop. It likes being given a way out.' Grow shows you the dragon breath. 'Breathe in through your nose, slow and deep, then blow out a long, warm breath.'

You breathe in through your nose. Out comes a tiny puff of warm dragon steam! With each breath, the fiery red glow around you softens, little by little, into a calm, cool blue. In through the nose. Out like a gentle dragon. Again. This time the feeling really lets go, step by step, not on command.

Your fists open like flowers. Now your hands feel calm enough to build again, slowly this time. 'Next time,' says Grow, 'I won't tell you to stop. We'll just breathe together.' Then Grow asks, 'So, little one... did we grow a little today?' You did. 'Here is your little grow for tomorrow,' says Grow. 'Next time a hot feeling bubbles up, don't try to stop it. Blow three big dragon breaths and let it pass.' See you tomorrow, little one.

💡Read together

  • Why did Grow's 'calm down!' make things worse?
  • What helped instead?
  • What could you try next time a big feeling comes?

👪For you

Anger is a normal, healthy emotion, and toddlers feel it before they can manage it, because the calming part of the brain is still under construction. What helps is not stopping the feeling but coaching a way through it: name it calmly, stay close rather than sending them away, and offer a simple physical outlet like slow breathing, stomping, or squeezing a pillow. Children co-regulate before they self-regulate, so your own calm body is the most powerful tool you have.

🎨Try this

🌋 Practice dragon breath when calm. When everyone is relaxed, breathe in through the nose and blow out a long dragon breath together a few times. Rehearsing it in a calm moment makes it much easier to reach for when a real volcano bubbles up.

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