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Growy and the Faraway Hug

schedule5 minchild_care2–6

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One of your grown-ups is far away right now, little one, farther than the shops, farther than the park, so far that you cannot pop over for a hug. You knew they were going. But knowing did not stop the sad, and tonight the sad is sitting right in the middle of your chest, quiet and heavy, in exactly the shape of a missing hug.

Growy decides to fix this by sending a hug across the distance. First Growy tries to post it in an envelope; it will not fold. Then Growy tries to mail it in a parcel; the parcel comes back. Finally Growy loads a hug into a slingshot and fires it out the window, and it lands in next door's garden. 'Hugs,' Growy pants, 'do not travel like that.'

'I know a way they DO travel,' you tell Growy, and you show it: two smooth stones, a matching pair, one for you and one that went far away in your grown-up's pocket. 'We agreed on a time. Every night, when it is goodnight o'clock, we both hold our stone and squeeze at the same moment.' You wrap your hand around yours. You wait. And then, slowly, the stone goes warm in your palm, because far away, at the very same second, another hand is squeezing too.

You hold the warm stone against the sad spot in your chest, and it fits there exactly, and the heavy feeling softens. 'Love does not get smaller with distance,' says Growy, wonder in its voice. 'It just has to travel a little further to reach you.' The stone stays warm a long, long time.

You fall asleep with the warm stone tucked in your hand, and far away, your grown-up is holding the very same warmth, thinking of you at the very same time. 'So, little one,' Growy asks softly, 'did we grow a little today?' You did. 'Here is your little grow for tonight,' says Growy. 'At goodnight time, squeeze your warm stone, and send your grown-up a faraway hug.' See you tomorrow, little one.

💡Read together

  • What silly ways did Growy try to send a hug?
  • How do the two stones work?
  • Who is squeezing their stone at the same time as you?

👪For you

Missing a faraway parent is real grief in a small body, and children often show it sideways: clinginess, meltdowns, big feelings at the wrong moments, or a flat "I don't care" that is the opposite of true. What helps most is a connection they can act on, not just hear about. A shared object and a synchronised ritual (a stone squeezed at the same time, a matching bracelet, a recorded goodnight played every night) turns an abstract "they love you" into something the child does with their hands. Keep the away parent present in daily life: a photo at child height, their voice on a short daily message, a countdown the child can see and move themselves. Tell the truth about timing in units a child understands ("home after four more sleeps", not "next Thursday"), and never spring a departure as a surprise. Let the missing be spoken, not tidied away ("you miss them, that makes sense, I miss them too"), since a named longing settles faster than a hidden one. And keep your own goodbyes at pickup and video calls warm but not drawn out, because a long tearful ritual teaches that partings are emergencies.

🎨Try this

🪨 Make a pair of connection stones: choose two smooth stones (or paint two small ones the same), keep one and send one with the faraway grown-up, and agree on a daily squeeze time. A shared, synchronised ritual gives a child something to DO with the missing, which is far more soothing than being told they will be back soon.

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